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Don’t Get Derailed by Change, Plan For It When You Have A Teen or Young Adult Child Who Struggles with Substances or Addiction, with Brenda Zane

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When you’re parenting a teen or young adult who’s struggling with substance use, the constant state of crisis can feel overwhelming. You might find yourself rushing to find the next solution, the newest resource, or the perfect intervention. But sometimes what we really need is to slow down enough to hear our own wisdom. ‘We

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3 Ideas For Combating Parenting Burnout And Empathy Fatigue When Your Child is Misusing Drugs or Alcohol, with Brenda Zane

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When your child is misusing drugs or alcohol, the weight of parenting can become crushing. Burnout and empathy fatigue aren’t just buzzwords—they’re real conditions that affect parents navigating substance use and mental health challenges with their teens and young adults. ‘Let’s just remember though, that parenting a typical teen or young adult is hard on

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9 Dangerous and Negative Thought Patterns, And What To Do Instead, for Parents With Kids Misusing Drugs or Alcohol, With Brenda Zane

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When your child is misusing drugs or alcohol, it’s easy to fall into dangerous thinking patterns that make everything harder. These mental traps can leave you feeling stuck, exhausted, and unable to help your child effectively. Understanding these patterns and learning what to do instead can dramatically improve your wellbeing and your relationship with your

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When parents discover their child is misusing substances, the instinct is to focus entirely on fixing the child. But therapist and parent coach Rebekah Tayebi suggests a radically different approach: the real work begins with the parent. Why Your Child Isn’t Really the Problem Rebekah explains that families typically arrive at her door wanting her

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