As tempting as it is to jump in and lecture when they come home high, it’s more effective to wait for those rare calm moments – maybe driving together or taking a walk – when defenses are naturally lower. If they’re under the influence, step back and find another time. Instead of rehearsing lectures, ask genuine questions and then do the hardest thing: actively listen without interrupting. We teach a strategic way to approach these conversations that sets you up for your best chance at a real, productive conversation.
