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Is It Ok To Use A CALM Approach With A Child Who Misuses Drugs and Alcohol? With Brenda Zane

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Is It Ok To Use A CALM Approach With A Child Who Misuses Drugs and Alcohol? With Brenda Zane

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When your child is misusing drugs or alcohol, every instinct tells you to react dramatically. The situation feels dangerous, disruptive, and chaotic—so shouldn’t your response match that intensity? Surprisingly, the answer is no. Why Calm Feels Counterintuitive As one parent describes it: ‘It can feel strange to take a calm, collected approach to a dangerous,

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The Question Parents Really Need To Ask Their Kids Who Struggle With Substance Misuse and Addiction, and Some Big News! with Brenda Zane

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When parents discover their child is misusing substances, the immediate question that comes to mind is often ‘why?’ Why would they do this? Why are they making these choices? But according to Brenda Zane, host of Hopestream and fellow parent to a child who struggled, we’re asking the wrong question entirely. Why Asking ‘Why the

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Eight Free And Impactful Ways of Being That Allow Your Child to Change Their Relationship With Drugs And Alcohol, with Brenda Zane

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When your child struggles with substance misuse, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about how to help. The good news is that parents have more influence than they realize, and there are proven approaches that don’t cost a penny but can create powerful conditions for change. Understanding the Crisis and Your Influence The statistics

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Straight From My Heart; You Don’t Get To Tap Out On Yourself, with Brenda Zane

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Parenting a child through substance misuse brings a pain that feels different from any other parenting challenge. It’s isolating, confusing, and overwhelming. Many parents feel alone in their struggle, even when they know intellectually that other families face similar battles. The Unique Pain of Parenting Through Substance Misuse The host, who has been producing this

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Four Strategies For Getting More of The Behavior You Want and Less of What You Don’t When Your Teen or Young Adult Child Misuses Drugs or Alcohol, With Brenda Zane

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When your teen or young adult is misusing drugs or alcohol, you’re likely desperate for strategies that actually work to discourage the dangerous behavior and encourage healthier choices. The good news is that there are evidence-based approaches that can help shift the dynamic in your home. Why Positive Reinforcement Works The foundation of behavior change

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Four Key Insights From My Conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté and The Myth of Normal, with Brenda Zane

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When we’re parenting a child who struggles with substance misuse, the instinct is often to focus entirely on fixing them. But what if the work begins with us? In this solo episode, Brenda Zane unpacks four transformative insights from her conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté about his book The Myth of Normal, offering a roadmap

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When you’re parenting a teen or young adult who’s struggling with substance use, the constant state of crisis can feel overwhelming. You might find yourself rushing to find the next solution, the newest resource, or the perfect intervention. But sometimes what we really need is to slow down enough to hear our own wisdom. ‘We

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When your child is misusing drugs or alcohol, the weight of parenting can become crushing. Burnout and empathy fatigue aren’t just buzzwords—they’re real conditions that affect parents navigating substance use and mental health challenges with their teens and young adults. ‘Let’s just remember though, that parenting a typical teen or young adult is hard on

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Parenting a child who struggles with substance misuse requires intentional awareness and constant recalibration. One powerful framework for finding balance is understanding what are called ‘near enemies’—emotions that masquerade as virtues but actually undermine our best intentions. Understanding the Near Enemies Concept As the host explains, near enemies are emotions that can be mistaken for

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Parenting a child who struggles with substance misuse creates an overwhelming level of stress that impacts every area of your life. The constant worry, fear, and uncertainty can feel like being trapped in an unbearably hot sauna with no way out. But there are ways to reduce your suffering without abandoning your child or your

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